Te Quiero vs Te Amo: Don’t Say the Wrong ‘I Love You’ in Spanish
There is a misconception about using te quiero vs te amo when expressing the concept of “I love you” in Spanish.
Although quiero often means “I want,” te quiero can translate to “I love you” in certain circumstances.
The two phrases are used in different ways across the vast Spanish-speaking world. Amar means to love. Te amo is a deeper, more intense declaration of love than te quiero, but it’s not reserved only for romantic relationships.
When referring to a person, both amar and querer are Spanish verbs that mean “to love.” Still, there are certain nuances to using amar and querer with different people and in different situations.
The te quiero vs te amo issue is admittedly not super clear cut. That’s why, for non-native speakers, finding the right words to convey our love in Spanish can be a challenge. Keep reading to learn when to say te quiero vs te amo, plus a variety of other words that express feelings of love in Spanish.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
- ‘Te Quiero’ vs ‘Te Amo’: Infographic
- When to Use ‘Te Amo’ vs ‘Te Quiero’
- What About ‘Amar’?
- Get Your Free Spanish eBook
- Amar, Querer, Adorar, Encantar, and More!
- Romantic Spanish Phrases
- Do You Love Spanish?
Te Quiero vs Te Amo: Infographic
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When to Use Te Quiero vs Te Amo
If you want to tell someone you love them in Spanish, should you say te amo or te quiero? Let’s take a closer look at the different uses of these verbs to better understand when to use te quiero or te amo.
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The Case for Querer
In general, the safer choice is “te quiero.” It will be understood and sound natural.
Because querer is a common Spanish verb that often means “to want,” beginning Spanish students may not realize that it can also express love.
Use querer with the following people:
- Family members (using te quiero or te amo with family depends on your preference)
- A recent relationship
- A person you have feelings for
Commonly, querer expresses wants and desires, as in the following examples:
Marta quiere viajar a Asia el próximo año.
Martha wants to travel to Asia next year.
Quiero una taza de café.
I want a cup of coffee
But te quiero is actually the most common way to say “I love you” in Spanish!
Since its literal translation is “I want you,” it may sound a bit strong to native English speakers. In Spanish, however, it has a lighter connotation of love and care. Friends and relatives frequently say “te quiero mucho” to one another.
More specifically, querer is the light version of amar.
While te quiero expresses affection, it doesn’t have a romantic or intimate connotation like te amo does.
Querer Example Sentences and Usage
Te quiero mucho.
I love you very much
Beto quiere a Elisa.
Beto loves Elisa.
Quiero mucho a mi familia.
I love my family very much.
Ana quiere mucho a sus amigos.
Anna loves her friends.
Querer is rarely used to say “I want you” in a romantic sense. Learn more about querer and its conjugation.
What About Amar?
In regards to te amo, the verb amar— depending on the region—isn’t used as much as querer by most native speakers. To some, it might sound like something a character would say in a telenovela and not something two young lovers would say in real life. To others, it may sound like a deeper declaration of profound love for a person. Te amo is a common expression in poetry, movies, and song lyrics.
Use amar with the following people:
- Your partner (as long as you are in love).
- Family members
Keep in mind that te amo could come across as a little overpowering if you haven’t been with your partner for long! Amar always expresses a greater and deeper degree of affection than querer.
The verb amar directly translates to the English verb “to love” and it expresses specific sentiments like warm attachment, devotion, and deep, loving admiration between kin or couples. As a result, use this phrase within meaningful relationships or very special people.
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Amar Meaning and Uses
Similar to the English verb, the Spanish verb amar has different uses. Here are some of the most common:
Using Amar to Show Affection
This Spanish verb declares the greatest and deepest love. It is considered intimate. You can use two different grammar structures with this verb.
1. Indirect pronoun + amar (conjugated)
I love you.
Do you love me?
Mi mamá y mi papá se aman.
My mother and father love each other.
Throw in an adverb to modify your phrase:
Te amo muchísimo.
I love you very much.
Te amo tanto.
I love you so much.
Te amo también.
I love you too.
If you’d like to express that a friend loves someone, you’ll need to make some adjustments to the structure. Be aware that even though the English translation remains the same, in Spanish, you need to add a preposition.
2. Person 1 + amar (conjugated) + a + person 2
Marío ama a Lucrecia.
Mario loves Lucrecia.
Yo amo a mis primas.
I love my cousins.
Eduardo ama muchísimo a su esposa.
Eduardo loves his wife very much.
Using Amar to Talk About Things You Love
In some Latin American countries, such as Colombia, México, Costa Rica, and Guatemala, amar is also used to express that you like something strongly. For example:
Amo esa película.
I love that movie.
Fernando ama los museos.
Fernando loves museums.
Mis hermana y yo amamos practicar yoga.
My sister and I love to practice yoga.
In Spanish, this use of amar is informal. If you’re traveling in Latin America, pay attention to whether or not the Spanish country you’re in uses amar this way.
In some countries, such as Spain and Argentina, the previous examples would sound weird. If you want to play it safe and use standard Spanish, you should use encantar instead.
Me encantó la película.
I loved the movie.
A Felipe le encanta viajar.
Felipe loves to travel.
A mis amigos y a mí nos encanta estudiar español.
My friends and I love to study Spanish.
Learn more about verbs like encantar and gustar to express informal love.
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Amar, Querer, Adorar, Encantar, and More!
The dictionary says that either amar or querer (and even desear and encantar) translate in some contexts to the verb “to love.” However, encantar is unlike amar, in that it doesn’t have an affectionate tone. Instead, it expresses that you like something or someone very much.
When talking about objects or activities, adorar also expresses that you really like something. However, when referring to a person it would translate as “to adore.”
Me encantó el final de la novela.
I loved the end of the novel.
Adoré este episodio.
I loved that episode.
Norma adora a su nieto.
Norma adores her grandson.
So, Which Do You Say: te quiero or te amo?
Te quiero is useful for all kinds of loving relationships, including friendship, marriage, and family.
Te amo is a common way of saying “I love you” in strongly committed romantic relationships or within families.
Equally, querer and amar can be used in non-romantic contexts like the love of siblings.
The ultimate difference is that amar shows a greater and deeper affection than querer.
Romantic Spanish Phrases
Last but not least, here are some endearing Spanish terms for expressing love and affection to your most favorite people:
Mi corazón – my heart
Mi amor / mi amorcito – my love
Mi cielo – my heaven/sky
Mi vida – my life
Mi cariño – my sweetheart
Querido/a – dear
Mi media naranja – my soulmate (informal)
Alma gemela – soulmate (literally “soul twin”)
Te adoro. – I adore you.
Abrázame. – Hug me.
Besame. – Kiss me.
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